Psycho-Spiritual Diagnostic Tool

Welcome to the Immanent Psyche Diagnostics—a sacred mirror for your becoming. These questions are an invitation to walk through the garden of your own depths, where symbols, patterns, and hidden roots reveal the living story of your soul.This work is offered for the healing of both the individual and the collective. If you feel nourished here and wish to support the continuation of my offerings in The Grove, a donation of your choosing is gratefully welcomed.

Come to this when you can be present and honest; what you put in, you will receive.

Copy and paste these prompts into a note, Google doc, or Word doc. Complete them. Then, copy and paste them into an email sent HERE🌱 Diagnostic Intake: The Garden of Your Becoming
We are each a garden—shaped by the hands that tended us, the weather that passed through, the soil we were planted in, and the strange, radiant essence we brought from before we were seed. These prompts invite you to walk through your inner garden with honesty, curiosity, and compassion. There’s no right way to respond. Just let the truth speak.🧤 1. The Gardeners
Attachment: The Hands That First Held You
Before we knew words, we knew touch. Before we knew who we were, we learned who we had to be in order to be held.
🌀 When I think about my earliest years, the feeling or memory that stands out most is...
🌀 Growing up, I learned that love meant...
🌀 A memory or feeling I associate with my earliest caregiver is...
🌀 In moments of fear or need, I usually reach for others, push them away, or go silent because...
🌀 One part of me I still struggle with—because it feels too much, too messy, or too weak—is...🌾 2. Weather Patterns
Developmental Wounds: The Storms That Shaped You
Some gardens grow with gentle rain and steady sun. Others endure droughts, floods, wild winds. It’s not whether a storm came—it’s how we learned to bend, break, or become.
🌀 When I feel overwhelmed, my body usually responds by...
🌀 When I get hurt, I tend to protect myself by...
🌀 A situation or emotional loop that keeps repeating in my life is...
🌀 A younger version of me still lives inside—I see them most clearly when...
🌀 A moment when I stopped trusting others (or myself) was...
🌀 One way I’ve learned to survive emotional pain is...🌻 3. The Local Climate
Nested Environments: The Ecosystem Around You
Every garden is part of an environment. Some are sheltered. Others face harsh winds, poisoned air, or watchful eyes. The systems around us shape what we learn to grow—and what we must bury.
🌀 A spoken or unspoken message I received at home that shaped how I see myself is...
🌀 The role I played in my family, classroom, or community growing up was...
🌀 In my culture or home, it was considered weak, bad, or dangerous to...
🌀 A belief about myself that feels hard to shake is...
🌀 Society (or my family) told me that to be worthy, I had to...🌍 4. The Soil of the World
Cultural Systems: The Ground Beneath All Things
Beneath every root system lies a deeper layer: the world’s stories about who matters, who’s safe, who’s allowed to thrive. We grow in relation to the myths we inherit—and the ones we’re here to rewrite.
🌀 The world I was born into taught me that safety meant...
🌀 I’ve had to hide, deny, or contort parts of myself in order to belong because...
🌀 Liberation, for me, would feel like...🪞 Bridging Questions (Diagnostic Layer Integration)
These help me understand the structure of your psyche—how you carry pain, protect yourself, and seek connection.
🌀 When I feel emotionally activated by someone I love, I usually...
🌀 The hardest emotion for me to express or stay with is...
🌀 When I’ve felt close to losing someone (physically or emotionally), I responded by...
🌀 One thing I often fear people will see or believe about me is...
🌀 I sometimes worry that if I slow down or let go of control...🌿 5. The Seed Itself
Soul Pattern: The Essence You Came In With
And yet—beneath it all—you were always something more. Something ancient. Something becoming.
🌀 I feel most like myself—centered, grounded, whole—when...
🌀 A dream, image, or symbol that keeps returning to me is...
🌀 I’ve always sensed that deep down, I carry this wisdom...
🌀 If I gave voice to the part of me that knows what’s best for me, it would say...
🌀 If my life were a myth or initiation story, the current chapter would be called...
🌀 I’ve always had a strange feeling that I came here to...🌸 6. The Edge of New Growth
Becoming: Where Healing Wants to Happen
Every garden longs to bloom again, no matter how overgrown. Healing doesn’t erase the past—it brings it back into harmony.
🌀 The place I feel most stuck right now is...
🌀 No matter how much I try, I keep struggling with...
🌀 A version of me I long to become—but am afraid of—is...
🌀 If I could let go of one fear, belief, or inner block, it would be...